- Notes from Bangalore, India, where I spent most of two weeks in a hospital, and the rest with friends: sive.rs/met/at-15
- Building without predicting. (The story of how I built my perfect home.) sive.rs/fit
- I write to see what I can write. I code to see what I can code.
- 17 conversations in Jakarta, Indonesia: sive.rs/met/at-14
- 16 conversations in super-multicultural Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur: sive.rs/met/at-13
- India tech friends: I just bought my ticket to IndiaFOSS in BLR Sept 26-27: fossunited.org/indiafoss/2026 Want to meet? Email me: sive.rs/contact
- Fight Club: I liked it the first time years ago, but watching a second time when you already know the end reveal? Elevates it from good to great. So many brilliant details in the screenplay. What else in life is better the second time?
- Prepare your “no” and keep it handy: sive.rs/n0
- My life was changed by four sentences in four books : sive.rs/4s4b
- Geography is four-dimensional: sive.rs/4d
- 1993 communal internet shaped me: sive.rs/netizen
- I’m not autistic, but my heroes are.
- Since we moved from city to rural land, to a house where the bathroom and kitchen are outside, my boy observed: “This year there are way more full moons.”
- My favorite LLM prompt: “List the top cities in {COUNTRY}, and anthropomorphize each one, listing the good-natured stereotypes and jokes that other people in {COUNTRY} say about people in this city.”
- Good book on cultural psychology: Tribal. Great insights and examples of how change happens on the personal, cultural, and institutional level. My notes at sive.rs/book/Tribal
- Fascinating book: Nineteen Ways of Looking at Consciousness - sive.rs/book/Conscious19 - uses one true story, 19 times, of the laughing brain patient - sive.rs/u12 - in the format of Nineteen Ways of Looking at Wang Wei - sive.rs/book/WangWei - to explore the subject.
- Great book: Elephant in the Brain: sive.rs/book/BrainMotives You have hidden motives and subconscious incentives. Two reasons for doing anything: a good reason and the real reason. Instititutions do this too: wasteful because they’re serving hidden purposes no one acknowledges. Great insights throughout.
- People of India! My OCI + Airtel + HDFC has culminated in a massive achievement and rite of initiation. I have made my first UPI payment. I’m now unstoppable.
- “Purpose” and “passion” are words we use when we’re not working.
- I was inconsiderate but now I’m everywhere: sive.rs/socials
- I love people. I love when they’re not around.
- Great book: “You’re Not Listening” by Kate Murphy. My notes: sive.rs/book/NotListening
- I highly recommend the book "Factfulness" by Hans Roling. My notes: sive.rs/book/Factfulness
- I’ve been offline 23 hours a day: sive.rs/off23
- Got my own ActivityPub server running at sive.rs/d though still super basic and testing
- The past is not true : sive.rs/pnt
- dashing dog, searching for purpose : sive.rs/pdog
- $575K of books sold. $575K to save lives. sive.rs/575k
- The joy and freedom of harmlessly upsetting social norms : sive.rs/nor
- Why I let go of my U.S. citizenship : sive.rs/xus
- the Michael Browne suits : sive.rs/suits
- Aim off-center to counter a bias : sive.rs/aim
- Thinking something nice about somebody? Tell them. sive.rs/nice
- 50 conversations in Bangalore and Chennai : sive.rs/meet-chbg
- Explorers are bad leaders : sive.rs/exled
- Travelling just for the people : sive.rs/travp
- Want anonymity? Make a persona not a mystery. sive.rs/anon
- I want to lose every debate: sive.rs/led
- Conversations with Tyler Cowen: sive.rs/tyler
- Reading the Bible, start to finish: sive.rs/bible
- Who should I meet in Chennai and Bengaluru? sive.rs/meet-chbg
- My podcast is live again! Season 3. Very short episodes. sive.rs/podcast
- make believe : sive.rs/mb
- a daily run, part two : sive.rs/run2
- Static HTML comments: sive.rs/shc
- a daily run, part one : sive.rs/run
- Doubt explanations : sive.rs/confab
- shortest date, and ketchup : sive.rs/ketchup
- Added some GREAT new books to my book notes page: sive.rs/book (click “newest”, up top)
- New release: full-length videobook for “YOUR MUSIC AND PEOPLE”: sive.rs/ymap
- interesting that the population of China, India, and Africa are each about 1.4 billion
- Try writing one sentence per line : sive.rs/1s
- The joke that changed my life : sive.rs/joke
- Find a good available .com domain: sive.rs/com
- Travel is best with young children : sive.rs/tk
- Short URLs: why and how : sive.rs/su
- Updated all four of my book pages, starting at the home page with the stack of books: sive.rs/
- Built a web app to help people translate my books. Used by over 300 translators, editors, and reviewers, to translate my books into 30 languages. Now it has a name: https://inchword.com/
- Why I left America : sive.rs/left
- Write plain text files : sive.rs/plaintext
- Database triggers to clean text inputs : sive.rs/clean1
- Generate unique random values directly in the database : sive.rs/rand1
- Database functions to wrap logic and SQL queries : sive.rs/api01
- Database trigger recalculates totals, for data integrity : sive.rs/recalc
- The best ideas I've found in the last 320+ books I've read: sive.rs/book
- Considerate book pricing: sive.rs/bp
- Parents of young (age 5-10) readers: We just finished reading the “HILO” comic books - which my boy’s librarian recommended - and it’s the best we’ve ever found. GREAT writing/story/twists/everything. https://www.juddspillowfort.com/hilo/ If you know another this good, please let me know.
- My newest and best book, “HOW TO LIVE - 27 conflicting answers and one weird conclusion”, is officially released and shipping worldwide now, exclusively through me: sive.rs/h
- How many pets do you have? sive.rs/pets
- Now that I’m done writing “How to Live”, I’m listening to music again! Starting with Ted Gioia’s great “Hundred Best Albums of 2020”: https://www.tedgioia.com/bestalbumsof2020.html — buying them all on Bandcamp.
- If you do what most people do, you'll get what most people get.
- Nobody cares what you’re bad at, and neither should you.
- I'm a fan of: Ravel Boléro, Erika Lemay, Debussy, Black bean burrito, Ruby, PostgreSQL, OpenBSD, Vim, Blackcurrant black tea, New Zealand, silence.
- Just added twelve new book notes to my site: sive.rs/book
- Open-sourced all the code and contents of my sive.rs site: https://git.sr.ht/~sivers/sive.rs
- The Art of Living with Less Stress: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amS0u15AL14 - from sive.rs/relax
- My limited-edition signed hardcover book “YOUR MUSIC AND PEOPLE” finally arrived from the printer today! Shipping next week. https://m.sive.rs/YMaP-4x.mp4 (All thanks to https://saeah.com/ who produced it!)
- “Your feelings are justified!” ← this is what everyone wants to hear
- Real question: What's the difference between feminism and anti-sexism?
- One of the best (and funniest) things I ever did was produce this album by “Captain T” : https://captaint.com/ + sive.rs/capt
- An open mind, like an open mouth, must eventually close on something.
- Sincere question: What non-obvious ways do you find or make BALANCE in your world?
- $250K books sold. $250K to save lives. sive.rs/250k
- Changed sivers.org to sive.rs because it's shorter. (No other reason. “.org” felt like unnecessary noise.)
- Fun interview with @shaneaparrish https://fs.blog/knowledge-project/derek-sivers/ I've been a fan (and subscriber) of his for years, so it was an honor to finally talk.
- “HELL YEAH OR NO”, my newest book, is available now at sive.rs/n
- “YOUR MUSIC AND PEOPLE”, my new book, is available now at sive.rs/m
- Moved back to New Zealand for good, today.
- 8 years ago I spent the day in Singapore with my hero Kevin Kelly, then at the end he told me it was his 60th birthday. Today he posted this must-read gem: https://kk.org/thetechnium/68-bits-of-unsolicited-advice/
- If you haven’t heard “Tango Til They’re Sore” by Tom Waits (from Rain Dogs) in a while, now’s a good time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmRzZX4dRSw
- Season 2 of my podcast is in full swing. Completely different than Season 1, it’s me being interviewed by many different hosts. Listen at sive.rs/podcast
- Sometimes the winds of change are a hurricane.
- I’ve answered 2100 emails in the last 48 hours. 4000 left. This is intense, but I’m thankful for the connection.
- My #1 most-gifted book is “The Third Ear” by Joachim-Ernst Berendt. Forever changes how you think of sound. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0805020071
- Time is personal. Your year changes when your life changes. : sive.rs/mny
- I performed at Nara Dreamland with my circus for two weeks in 1992. Then it became this… https://metro.co.uk/2018/09/01/haunting-photos-capture-abandoned-nara-dreamland-theme-park-in-japan-7903779/
- How I became Ryuichi Sakamoto's guitarist (now on podcast) : sive.rs/sakamoto + sive.rs/podcast
- Now on podcast : Sammy Cahn said thank you : sive.rs/sammy-cahn : sive.rs/podcast
- Posted to podcast : “Human Intervention as a Competitive Advantage” : sive.rs/hi || sive.rs/podcast
- Experiments in music and life : sive.rs/eml
- podcast now also on YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcE0XVmYoKM8gcT6nHNHDiK0rSjm8X6eb
- My podcast is launched : sive.rs/podcast (Each episode is VERY short, of course. You know how I am.)
- Writing daily, but posting when ready : sive.rs/nod
- How I got rich on the other hand : sive.rs/richand
- Podcast RSS generator in Ruby : https://gist.github.com/sivers/e3a90a742cfc0802ede9dbf553339174
- When in doubt, try the difference : sive.rs/trd
- Why experts are annoying : sive.rs/exan
- What you learn by travelling : sive.rs/trav1
- PostgreSQL example of self-contained stored procedures : sive.rs/pg2
- Mastery school : sive.rs/masch
- Monthly self-expansion project : sive.rs/exex
- Living according to your hierarchy of values : sive.rs/vls1
- How to ask your mentors for help : sive.rs/ment
- sive.rs/random jumps to a different random article on my site every time. (Thanks to Dan Maldonado for the idea.)
- When you win the game, you stop playing : sive.rs/wtg
- Digital pollution : sive.rs/polut
- Cut out everything that’s not surprising : sive.rs/d22
- Heed your fears : sive.rs/gofear
- Daydreaming is my favorite pastime : sive.rs/daydream
- Anti-chameleon : sive.rs/antic
- Where we do and don’t want automation : sive.rs/autom
- Human nature to focus on the one bad thing : sive.rs/negz
- Back and forth between super-hot and super-cold : sive.rs/sauna
- Err on the side of action, to test theories : sive.rs/erra
- Blowing off work to play : sive.rs/hooky
- The joy and strategic wisdom of ignoring plans : sive.rs/ldn
- Tour -isms : sive.rs/isms
- To me, this is the most beautiful bike frame: https://surlybikes.com/bikes/straggler I love a horizontal top tube, and for the top, seat, and down tubes to be same thickness. Simple symmetry.
- Meta-considerate : sive.rs/metac
- Daydreaming the downside, for once : sive.rs/ddown
- Where to find the hours to make it happen : sive.rs/uncomf
- Your heroes show which way you’re facing : sive.rs/hf
- I'm hard to impress when it comes to tea, but “Singapore Breakfast” tea from T2 is the best tea I've had in YEARS. Get it if you can. https://www.t2tea.com/
- Don’t quote. Make it yours and say it yourself. sive.rs/dq
- Have a private email account : sive.rs/pe
- Future posthumous autobiography : sive.rs/abio
- Cross the world four times : sive.rs/4
- What I did belies why : sive.rs/ww
- Would you make your art if you were the last person on earth? : sive.rs/tp3
- Travel without social praise : sive.rs/tp2
- Travel without a phone to be in the moment : sive.rs/tp1
- My old clothes don’t fit : sive.rs/clothes
- Hearing Arvo Pärt “Für Alina” for the first time and loving it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/F%C3%BCr_Alina (Took 2+ listens to slow down my inner clock and appreciate.) Thanks to https://joellaviolette.com/ for the tip.
- I’ve answered 811 emails in the last 5 days. This might be unsustainable.
- doors and windows and what’s real : sive.rs/dw
- I’ve often been with someone and wished I was alone. I’ve never been alone and wished I was not.
- Instead of many hours nudging things with a mouse in Pro Tools or Cubase, I wrote a little Ruby script to use sox to programmatically generate it. So much better: https://gist.github.com/sivers/b900bf4004e148b32a5ddf3fffbe3a1c
- Just finished recording the audiobook for “Hell Yeah or No”. It's really good. I'm excited. sive.rs/n
- Looked up origin of the word “seesaw”. It’s imitating French “ci-ça”, meaning “this-that”. ♥ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seesaw
- I just finished my next book: “Hell Yeah or No”. sive.rs/n Get on my private email list if interested: sive.rs/list
- Loving with your head is like running with your hands.
- New notes from two books on Artificial Intelligence. One good, one great. sive.rs/book/SurvivingAI + sive.rs/book/Life30
- I’ve moved from New Zealand to Oxford England : sive.rs/ox1 (Email me if you want to meet up anywhere in Europe.)
- Settling in to Oxford, England : sive.rs/now
- Benefits of a daily diary and topic journals : sive.rs/dj
- Must-read book for those over 60. Should-read for those over 40: sive.rs/book/BrainRulesAging
- Three new book notes, including the great “Atomic Habits” : sive.rs/book
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